Nov 23

It’s your ’Teaching Children About Money’ Coach – Amanda van der Gulik here.

I have some exciting PERSONAL news – and I am just a bit nervous about sharing it….

You see, even though I am very “out there” with my public personality as the

‘Teaching Children About Money’ Coach , well… I am usually reluctant about

sharing too much of my private life. Which is why I am a bit nervous…

But I am just bursting with this news – so I decided it’s time to come out and

share this with you: Continue reading »

Aug 19

My good friend Dennis Zabawa wrote a wonderful piece today on the DreamRichly Daily Forum. It is from the inspiration of his blog post that I write this one to you today.

Have you ever made a promise that you couldn’t keep?

How dissappointed did you feel for breaking your promise?

How badly did the person who you made your promise to feel?

You are not alone here, I have found myself in this horrible situation time and time again. I truly mean to keep my promise but then I find myself simply not able to keep it. But we can change that!

Try this one next time you find yourself making a promise…

UNDER promise – OVER deliver!

I always teach my kids to under promise and over deliver.

Actualy I’ve done this on purpose in one of the ebooks that I give away for free to kids, it’s an ebook with 50 money making ideas for kids but when they open it up there are actually 57!

I want them to learn at a young age that you really need to watch what you promise. You’ll make people so much happier if you surprise them with more than they expect instead of under delivering on your promise.

If you think a job will take you a week to accomplish, then say it will take you two or at least a week and a half. Give yourself the space for any mishaps to be concurred and then you can have the wonderful luxury of telling your happy client, “I’m done already!” and thoroughly enjoy their happy surprise.

Here’s to your continued success! ;o)

Cheers….Amanda van der Gulik…Excited Life Enthusiast!
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Aug 13

“I was chuckling yesterday – it’s so nice when your kids come to a conclusion all on their own, a conclusion you have been waiting for them to reach.

“The backstory to this one is this. A couple of years ago, my daughters started a business breeding pet rats. They borrowed the start-up capital from us, and paid interest out of their pocket money. After a while, two of them wanted to pay down the principal out of their pocket money, too, to get rid of the debt earlier. (We decided not to intervene with a good-debt-bad-debt conversation at that point!)

“One of the twins didn’t want to pay extra, and there were words exchanged.In the end, we reached a compromise – the one who didn’t want to pay extra would become an employee. She would be paid each time she helped with the cage-cleaning, but she would not be entitled to a share of any profits which came down the track.

“This smoothed things over, and some time later the debt was all paid and the profits were being distributed between the other two. We discussed the difference between being paid for what you do at the time you do it, vs taking a risk and possibly getting a bigger payday later.

“They wound the rat business up after a couple of years, and a couple of months later, the oldest was finally old enough to apply for a job a McDonalds. The younger two, about the same time, started internet businesses. I talked to the oldest about having an internet business, too, but she was so dazzled by the enormous size of her first fortnight’s pay from McDonalds that she wasn’t interested.

“She said she wanted to repeat the employee-vs-business experiment they had done with the rat business, with her as the employee this time. She was very confident that she could make more as an employee than the others would online.

“Over the past few months, she has started to notice the problems with being an employee. She was sick, and had to reduce her hours. She was rostered to work while her friends were out at parties. She learned how everything worked within a few weeks, and boredom set in.

“The final clincher was when she started rethinking her career choices. The years of study to become an anaesthetist started to look like a bit of a drag.

‘But,’ she said, ‘if I’m not going to be an anaesthetist, what will I be?’

“I pointed out that there’s not a huge hurry to decide (she’s only fourteen after all), and then I dropped in a mention that if she had a bit of money coming in from an internet business, she wouldn’t have to make a final decision about her career for quite a few more years.

“She thought about it. Then she said ‘If I was making enough money from the internet business, I wouldn’t ever need a job, would I?’

‘Not unless you wanted to do something that you have to do as an employee,’ I said, ‘like being an astronaut.’

“Wheels turned almost audibly.

‘I want a website,’ she said.

“And so endeth the experiment!

“Don’t get me wrong – I’m not opposed to people having jobs. There have been times in my career that I have been, at least on paper, on someone’s payroll.

“I am opposed to people being raised with an employee mindset. I am proud of my McDonalds employee daughter, not just for having the gumption to apply the very first day their website would let her in to do so, but also for going out and getting a trade certificate as a barista before she applied, to make herself more appealing as an applicant, and for almost immediately becoming one of their fastest front-counter operators.

“The way she explains it, she sets herself challenges to see how fast she can get the orders together, because it makes the work more interesting and rewarding. She never just shows up in ‘time serving mode’ with the sole aim of surviving her hours and collecting her pay. Even at a job as apparently menial as working at Maccas, she is thinking all the time about how to add value, for herself and for her employer.

“If everybody approached their work with that kind of attitude, what a wonderful world it would be!”

By Jenny Ford
Cash Smart Kids.com

To find ways for your own children to start their own internet businesses visit Teaching Children About Money.com

Jun 18

Does this saying sound familiar to you?

I bet you are probably one of many who heard this often growing up, right?

If not, you were lucky.

Let’s turn a new leaf and start raising our own children a little differently.

How about we change the way we answer our kids when they want something that requires money that we do not have or refuse to give.

For example:

Jonny wants a new pair of brand-name, high-endurance, running shoes.

“Dad, I really need a new pair of ‘brand-name’, running shoes. They are the coolest and all the kids have them. I want a pair too! If I don’t get a pair of them, then Shawn’s going to beat me at basket ball and you know, I’m 10 times better than him at basket ball!”

Here are two different replies:

Dad replies with, “What do you think I’m made of? Money doesn’t grow on trees you know!

or

Dad replies with, “Well son, if those shoes mean that much to you and you truly feel that Shawn will have an unfair advantage over you in basket ball, then what is your plan? How do you plan to buy those shoes? Can you think of something that you can do, or make, or service, that can raise you the money so you can buy your own pair? If you really want those shoes, son, then you’re going to have to come up with a good way to buy them. I believe you can do it. Come back to me when you have a plan and we’ll see if we can work it out together. Good luck kiddo.”

In Dad’s first reply, dad shuts Jonny’s hopes down but ALSO teaches him, although unintentionally, that life is all about ’scarcity’. Jonny learns from these negative replies that money is hard to come by. That it is difficult to get what you want in life. That other people will always have more than you. And the list goes on and on…

On the other hand in Dad’s second reply, you can see that Dad is turning on the creative juices in his son’s mind, “okay, so I want these new shoes, how can I go about making the money to get them myself?”.

And as well as getting Jonny’s creative juices flowing on some easy ways for kids to make money, Dad is also teaching some other incredibly valuable life lessons. Like: Abundance, Optimism, Faith in his son to find a way to fullfil his desire.

He is teaching him to be responsible for himself as well as encouraging him to come up with a plan and then to work together on making that plan come to action. This alone will diminish any thoughts of theft as an option.

So how are you talking to your own kids when it comes to money?

See if you can pay attention to the next time your child asks you about money. Listen to your own reply and then meditate on it for a minute or two.

How did that answer come across to your child?

Was your child turned off of money, or encouraged to take responsibility to come up with a creative way to attract their desired goods.

I hope you have enjoyed this thoughtful session, and I look forward to writing the next. If you have any specific topics that you would like me to talk about please just leave a message and I will do my best to answer your topics of interest where concerned with kids and money.

Cheers…Amanda van der Gulik…Excited Life Enthusiast!

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Jun 13

Hello Parents of Future Millionaires!

I am so excited!

My ebook, “The Insider’s Secrets to Raising a Future Millionaire” has been a huge hit!

It is so heartening to know that the information, tools and resources that I have put together in my book have been able to touch the lives of so many families who really want to teach their kids all about money.

Here’s what one mother wrote me:

“Hi Amanda,

I just wanted to congratulate you on a fantastic book!

I grew up in a household with a ´poverty mentality´ always struggling to make ends meet.

Since having my own children I have always want to teach them that nothing is impossible but time seems to fly by and I always think I am not doing enough to give them a financial education (too busy trying to make money to give them the best schooling I can afford!)

Your book has really given the push I needed to make this a priority. They are already 6 and
8 and I know you are right – the time to start is now.

If I say we don´t have the money for something they tell me to just go to the bank and get it – like it just appears magically.

I desperately want them to be financially secure so that they concentrate on enjoying life and there are loads of great resources in the book to help me teach them.

This is a must-have for all parents.” Yolanda Solo, USA

Thank-you Yolanda, I am so pleased that I was able to give you what you needed to really get your financial education for your kids going. I’m sure that with persistence and by being a positive role-model for your children you will be able to succeed at raising your own kid entrepreneurs and future millionaires!

I’m so pleased that I was able to offer my loyal members my Last Chance Offer to get my ebook at the Pre-Launch reduced price. The ebook is now fully available and functional.

For all of you who have already purchased my ebook, a REAL BIG THANK-YOU! I really do appreciate your business and I truly look forward to working together to help your with all your educational needs and support while you are teaching your children about money.

Cheers….Amanda van der Gulik…..Excited Life Enthusiast!